Filling Out Your “About Me” on FetLife

Reading Time: 5 minutes People in the public kink community value authenticity – It’s often at social events and dungeons with other kinky people that we can truly be ourselves. You will connect better with other kinksters when you match that authentic energy. Much like a career coach can prep you for an interview but can’t feed you exact answers, I hope to provide you with principles that need to be met in a FetLife profile so that the finished product is genuinely you.

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The Reality of Service

Reading Time: 2 minutes I fantasized about dressing like the butlers on TV and serving fancy cocktails at even fancier parties. Imagining a life filled with pristine white gloves, the ear of powerful people, and gigantic homes with marble bathrooms. I pantomimed buttoning up the pressed white shirts and pulling the contrasting black tailcoat over my shoulders…

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