My Thirteen-Inch Dildo and Other Toys I Can’t Use Anymore

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This is the text of my interview featured on Sexplanations!

I discovered my fondness of large insertions with an ex-partner of mine. When I was fingered, I continued to ask for more and more. One day he listened, and that very naturally progressed into fisting, both first times for us. I’ve gone on to teach several later partners how to fist me. We then progressed to him using a large toy on me vaginally. We were both really turned on by the idea of me gaped, so we then progressed to double vaginal with a toy and his cock. This was oriented where his cock was under the dildo, so when he thrust, the dildo would be pushed into me. That was super fun!

With one of my current partners, I taught him how to fist me the second time we had sex. He had an interest in large Bad Dragon toys, so we bought the Austin large together. This was my first experience with a toy that was thick as well as long. I’ve found that I enjoy both the deep vaginal pressure and the stretching feeling, both while being stretched and afterward. I’ve found that in general, intense sensations do a lot for me in both sex and kink. Plus the psychological effect of looking down and seeing a huge dildo pounding me is amazing! I feel completely at the mercy of my partner, so the surrender to those sensations can be very effective if I’m looking for a submissive headspace.

As you may know, the stretching during large insertion is temporary. My long term partners can tell you that I’m just as tight as before I was fisted. In fact, some people, myself included, have found that consistent use of large vaginal insertions can help them to develop greater muscular control.

After I was able to adjust to Austin quickly, I bought two toys from Square Peg. I knew about Square Peg Toys because I was exploring puppy play gear at the time and Square Peg offers the best wagging tail insertable on the market as far as I can tell. Besides his puppy gear, Square Peg Toys also offers very large insertables designed for anal stretching, but I figured that silicone is silicone, right? I bought the Sigmund and the medium Blunt Plug. The Sigmund is 13″ long and 10.5″ around at the thickest point. After about ten months of working on it, I was able to take about 75% of Sigmund vaginally. This is the biggest I’ve ever gone, and I’d say the biggest I’m comfortable going, but who knows what the future holds?

Unfortunately, in the Winter of 2018, my endometriosis progressed. For a while, I could use large insertions, but only thick ones, not deep ones. Recently, any vaginal penetration has become painful to the point that I don’t use large insertions any more. It’s simultaneously funny and sad to look at my drawer and see poor Sigmund neglected. If I could donate him to a loving home, I might. However! I hope to have a total hysterectomy by the end of the year, which means that mid-2020 I can start considering large insertions again. However, I think I’ll start with just a few fingers.

My advice for newcomers to large insertions is to listen to your body. Begin to learn the difference between a good stretching pain that causes no harm and tearing pain. If you’re playing with partners, be extremely communicative. Listen to your body and don’t worry about taking a break if something hurts or feels out of the ordinary. Use way more lube than you think you need. My favorite lube is Sliquid H20 because it has nearly no taste or smell, plus works just as well as the competitors that smell like cough syrup.

Now get out there and happy stretching!

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